*writing this post while listening to guys my age by Hey Violet* (ceh)
if they dont ask whats your favourite colour or how was you day, maybe that person is just not that into you? never been asked whats the first song that comes to mind when you think of them,
never been asked about your favourite food or favourite person.
maybe that person that makes you smile every time their name pops on your phone is just not as insanely into you like you are into them. maybe they're just not eager to know about you like you are about them. they get mad when you forget about that game they told you about,
or whats their favourite snacks, but they never even bothered to remember your birthday or whats your favourite colour.
if all the things that comes out of their mouth only benefits them and is all about them, then maybe theyre just not into you.
wouldnt they want to know the little things about you, like how you want to know every single detail about them? wouldnt they want to know what kind of songs you listen to in the car or what kind of songs you sing in the shower.
wouldnt they want to know what do you do when you feel sad or when you are at your lowest point.
you'd want to know what makes them smile everyday, or what motivates them to do what they do everyday. you'd want to know why theyre friends with the people they are now.
you'd want to know do they prefer tea or coffee, are they the kind of person who listens or reads. you'd want to know what kind of books or movies interest them. you'd want to know their whole world, and maybe they have no clue about that, ignorance to the idea of it,
not wanting to know your little things that fills up those little holes in your life, those little spaces in you heart. maybe theyre just not into you.
so take step back, find & be with someone who's so into you, it blows your mind,
it makes you sleepless at night because suddenly reality is so much better than your dreams,
someone who's so into you, probably a little more than you are into yourself,
find someone who wants to know what its like to be you, what goes through you mind every single day. because life is too short to waste your time with people who arent invested as you are,
people who only want something or someone because it feels right TO THEM. life is too short to fight for things & people who only care about themselves,
life is too short to put your whole heart & soul for someone who doesnt even take a second glimpse at you, someone who doesnt appreciate life like you would.
so maybe theyre just not that into you
but seriously, if that person, who you cant stop thinking about all day, doesnt even ask about how was YOUR day? wyd fam, drop them