and its okay if you're a mess right now, its okay if you haven't gotten anything figured out yet,
its okay if you feel tired and like everything you do is never enough,
its okay to feel defeated by your own feelings, its okay to not feel what others are feeling,
its okay to feel bitter about the world sometimes, its okay to feel lost most of the time,
its okay to feel lonely at 1 in the morning or 5 in the evening, its okay to want attention and crave for affection, its okay to eat that double cheese burger at 3 in the morning, its okay if you're at home whilst everyone is out and about, its okay to cry, its okay if you have better plans for your future than what your parents has planned for you, its okay to laugh too much, its okay to talk too loud,
its okay if you wake up at 1 in the afternoon & sleeps at 2 in the morning,
its okay if your anxiety has been acting up or your depression has been creeping in,
its okay if you feel like the world is against you, its okay if you all you want to do all day is lay in bed and do nothing,

its okay to be alone, its okay to not smile sometimes, its okay if your dark circles are visible,
its okay to not be that person people expect you to be, or to do the things people expect you to do, its okay to be bad and let loose sometimes,
its also okay to be good, read books, stay in and do your homeworks,
its okay if you've never left home to explore, its okay if you've never went on adventures, its okay.
its okay if you gained weight, or lost weight. its okay to be skinny or the opposite of it, its okay if your jeans doesnt fit you anymore, its okay if you needed new clothes because the old ones never seem to fit anymore.
its okay to feel insecure sometimes, to look at the other girls and wanting to look as beautiful as them,
its also okay to feel good about yourself, dancing in front of the mirror, take beautiful photos of yourselves. its okay to feel confident, its okay to not care what others think of you,
its okay to be selfish sometimes, its okay to put yourself & your feelings first, its okay if no one is taking care of your heart
its okay if you still cant find the person who you'd want to spend your life with, someone you make your vows too. its okay if there's no one wishing you good morning & goodnights.

its okay to not feel okay sometimes, we're humans after all, we make mistakes, we are the mistakes.
you cant always have what you want but you can learn to love & appreciate what you have.
so my friends, its going to be okay, trust me.