how do i know if i've feelings for someone? is it the constant need to always be around them? is it the butterflies i get when i see them smile? or is it just by the thought of them makes me smile? i dont know, but the buddhist has a saying that if they are your soulmate, they dont make you feel like having elephants in your stomach or they dont make you feel nervous of any kind but instead they'll make you feel at peace, they make you feel calm & relaxed, like everything is gonna be okay.

so which one is it?

am i just craving for anyone's attention or is just yours that i want? help me, im clueless